Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh) marriage to Zayd’s wife

 
Salam,
In another fabrication against the good name of Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh) the Christians and the Jews accused Muhammad’s pursuit of Zaynab, the wife of his adopted son is almost as tough for Muslims to explain the verse of the Quran at Surah 33:37. According to them this is because it not only raises a similar question of moral character, but also casts suspicion on whether his so-called prophecies were really divine revelation or dictates of personal convenience.
 
The full verse of Surah 33:37 of the Quran
 
Behold! Thou didst say to one who had received the grace of Allah and thy favor: "Retain thou (in wedlock) thy wife, and fear Allah." But thou didst hide in thy heart that which Allah was about to make manifest: thou didst fear the people, but it is more fitting that thou shouldst fear Allah. Then when Zaid had dissolved (his marriage) with her, with the necessary (formality), We joined her in marriage to thee: in order that (in future) there may be no difficulty to the Believers in (the matter of) marriage with the wives of their adopted sons, when the latter have dissolved with the necessary (formality) (their marriage) with them. And Allah's command must be fulfilled. (Surah 33:37)
 
If the above verse is scrutinized deeper one will find that at the end of the verse above it is stated that Allah’s command must be fulfilled whether the Prophet do it willingly or unwilling he was compelled to obey the command.
 
In the beginning of the verse which says “Behold! Thou didst say to one who had received the grace of Allah and thy favor: "Retain thou (in wedlock) thy wife, and fear Allah."
 
In this early part of the verse the Prophet (Pbuh) instructed Zayd who is favored by Allah and himself to retain his wife and fear Allah. It can be seen that the Prophet was commanded by Allah to marry Zayd’s wife but he did not revealed the command by Allah and he kept silent over the command for he fear the negative reaction from his community of marrying the adopted son‘s wife. At any generation whether during his days or even now marrying the adopted son’s wife is like marrying his own son’s wife. The Prophet did not feel good and it also will not look proper for the Prophet in his society but Allah showed His indignation that the Prophet should fear Him more than he should fear or be ashame of his people. Thus Allah said to him: "But thou didst hide in thy heart that which Allah was about to make manifest: thou didst fear the people, but it is more fitting that thou should fear Allah.”
 
 
Ultimately the Prophet submitted to the command of Allah as stated in the same verse: “Then when Zaid had dissolved (his marriage) with her, with the necessary (formality), We joined her in marriage to thee: in order that (in future) there may be no difficulty to the Believers in (the matter of) marriage with the wives of their adopted sons, when the latter have dissolved with the necessary (formality) (their marriage) with them. And Allah's command must be fulfilled.”
 
The lesson showed in the above verse is that although the Prophet was not in favor to marry the adopted son’s wife he must eliminate this feeling of remorse as it is a command of Allah and the command must be obeyed as he fear the wrath of Allah.
 
In the Quran it is stated that this is common for prophets to experience when in the service for Allah they have to do some things which they do not like but they still do it to please Allah as stated: There can be no difficulty to the Prophet in what Allah has indicated to him as a duty. It was the practice (approved) of Allah amongst those of old that have passed away. And the command of Allah is a decree determined. (Surah 33:38)
 
The rationale behind the ruling that a man can marry the former wife of his adopted son is to show that blood relative have prior claim in relationship and in inheritance. It is common instance that whenever a family without children adopted a child they tend to love the child dearly even after they had their own child. There are many cases the parent love more the adopted child that they tend to leave their entire estate to that child. The Quran cautioned Muslims from neglecting near family who are blood relatives as stated in this verse:  
 
And those who accept faith subsequently, and adopt exile, and fight for the Faith in your company, they are of you. But kindred by blood have prior rights against each other in the Book of Allah. Verily Allah is well-acquainted with all things. (Surah 8:75).
 
The distribution of estate in Surah 4:11-12 and Surah 4:176 is the indication where blood relative have priority and to be written in the will and only if there is a portion left for others than the adopted child shared can be willed by the testator.
 
With the ruling that a man can marry his adopted son’s wife another ruling connected is activated that the adopted child should keep the name of his true father’s name or if it is unknown than use other names but not the adopted father’s name as stated:
 
Allah has not made for any man two hearts in his (one) body: nor has He made your wives whom ye divorce by Zihar your mothers: nor has He made your adopted sons your sons. Such is (only) your (manner of) speech by your mouths. But Allah tells (you) the Truth, and He shows the (right) Way. Call them by (the names of) their fathers: that is juster in the sight of Allah. But if ye know not their father's (names, call them) your brothers in faith, or your maulas. But there is no blame on you if ye make a mistake therein: (what counts is) the intention of your hearts: and Allah is Oft-Returning, Most Merciful. The Prophet is closer to the Believers than their own selves, and his wives are their mothers. Blood-relations among each other have closer personal ties, in the Decree of Allah. Than (the Brotherhood of) Believers and Muhajirs: nevertheless do ye what is just to your closest friends: such is the writing in the Decree (of Allah). (Surah 33:4-6)
 
 
Asar
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


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